Proposition One: Our favorite things can be traced back to the influence of something or someone in our early lives.
Me: Blue because I remember my mother telling me it was her favorite.
Mushu: Purple
The Commandant: Purple
Blondie: Aqua Green. It's powerful, like the ocean.
Favorite Animal:
Me: Horses because they symbolize freedom and wide open spaces- something teenage me would have given anything for.
Mushu: I really like penguins - I couldn't tell you why.
The Commandant : Cats
Blondie: Hedgehogs
Favorite Song:
Me: Light Up the Sky by Yellowcard because the lyrics are like my inner monologue - they give me strength to keep going. Also Ocean Avenue by Yellowcard - it was the favorite song of my baby sitter and she was always listening and dancing to it.
Mushu: Living on a Prayer
The Commandant: Clean by T. Swift.
Blondie: Flaws - Bastille
Here are some examples we came up with without getting too personal for those of you outside the group. The Sisterhood is a safe haven and his conversation got very deep very quickly. Regardless, trust me when I say their answers had similar trains of thought as mine. When we thought back, we found that there often was a reason we claimed something to be our favorite - and that these reasons often happened in early childhood.
Proposition Two: Our perception of the world is tainted by a lenses defined by our past experiences
As we grow and observe our world, we come to understand that it is dictated by a series of "truths." These "truths" varied between us as we did not all grow up the exact same way. We took this idea further and claim that everyones lives, and therefore their "truths" would not be equitible.
Our next step was speaking about how "truths"would come to define our idea of reality. This reality in turn would taint how we interacted with the world. Because our "truths" were not the same, neither were our realities.
Proposition Three: Everyone will have a different interpretation.
With these ideas in mind, we ask you to pick up your Bibles again. We hope you find that the verses take on different meanings - between people and between life's experiences.
If reality is indeed defined by "truths" that we came to observe as children, and they really do differ on a fundamental level, then everyone should have a different experience reading the Bible.
Conclusion: Respect is the key to one day understanding.
We can only hope to learn from one another. to do that we must first respect each other - then maybe one day we will be blessed enough to understand where the others are coming from.